By the way, the details of the incident you're referring to vary
I tried to stay within the details of Miles 'corrected' version of the story. I think that Miles qualified 1) that this was basically a good natured interaction (friends, foes, and inanimate objects alike were referred to as MFer's by Miles) 2) Monk (a large but good natured man) could have kicked Davis's butt in short order if so inclined.
- But he really did want Thelonius to lay out.
there are recordings of the session under "Miles Davis and the Modern Jazz Giants." And Monk being Monk, he lays out, all right ... during his own solo, barely playing and being obviously obtuse. Miles tries to rescue it by suddenly coming in to solo himself--you can hear him moving toward a mic to do it, with the change in tone as he approaches it. And right when Miles begins to play, BOOM, Monk finally goes into a true solo. It's pretty funny.
I think I have that in the 'Legendary Prestige Sessions' box I'll have to go listen for the incident. Do you recall the song?