I moved this here because it's more Sandbox than On Topic.
Best wishes to you, Moz. Take things one day at a time. Pet Sounds is healing music for a reason. It has probably helped us all through tough times in life. It doesn't tell us what we want to hear, but what we need to hear.
Yes, RBB, and Moz, listen to your own heart beat, in a quiet place, and try to get your head to the "place" before the relationship - who YOU were, and what YOU liked, and I bet you'll find someone you really like, with a "wish list" of your own, that marriage tends to put on hold. Whether it is travel, or music, or anything else that is personal to you, alone.
Sormtimes things just fall apart. I love the Pet Sounds sessions, best, as it tells the story of how it "came together." You'll come together again as well. All the best.