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Title: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Smile4ever on August 11, 2014, 05:51:03 PM
Of course, a lot is made of the Brian/Mike relationship being contentious through court dates, etc. But I actually don't think this relationship has had serious friction compared to others within the band. For instance, the Dennis/Mike relationship came to blows a few times.

What do you think?


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: MaryUSA on August 11, 2014, 06:01:02 PM
Hi all,

I think that this is no such thing as a perfect relationship in life. 


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Orange Crate Art on August 11, 2014, 06:21:10 PM
They all pissed each other off, but I'm willing to bet that the worst relationship among the band was between Mike and Dennis.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Shady on August 11, 2014, 06:26:11 PM
Mike and Dennis, can you imagine two bigger opposites?  Or maybe Al and Mike.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: bgas on August 11, 2014, 07:26:01 PM
I thnk the only ones you need to concern yourself with are Al, Mike, Bruce, David and Brian


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Ron on August 11, 2014, 08:18:09 PM
I'd say Mike and Al since it's basically never been resolved.  Dennis passed away so Mike can't really be too pissed at him.  Mike and Al, 50 years later, are still talking trash at each other. 


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Gabo on August 11, 2014, 11:43:04 PM
I wonder why. they had TM in common


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Lonely Summer on August 12, 2014, 12:31:02 AM
I would have to say Carl and ...anyone else in the band! He absolutely hated his bandmates!  :lol


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Cabinessenceking on August 12, 2014, 10:49:36 AM
I think Blondie deeply hated Bruce. He still hates him, the hater. Ofc what he doesn't know is that Dave Marks hates him also, in secret....
Mike Love talks about bringing peace and harmony, but that's just a crying shame when Mick Jagger is too chicken sh*t to do IGA vs JJF. What a hater!


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Moon Dawg on August 12, 2014, 01:18:51 PM
 1. Dennis and Mike   Obvious
 2. Al and Mike   The last 20 years
 3. Bruce and David  Based on THE LOST BEACH BOY
 4. Brian and Mike  Lots of issues over the years
 5. Bruce and Carl  Just my own hunch


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Mayoman on August 12, 2014, 01:32:06 PM
3. Bruce and David  Based on THE LOST BEACH BOY
Curious about this as I've never read the book and how they seem to get along fine now.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: JK on August 12, 2014, 02:11:15 PM
On seeing this topic in my list of  "unread posts since last visit" I automatically assumed it was about longtime members of this board! A sign of the times perhaps? ;D


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Eric Aniversario on August 12, 2014, 02:51:36 PM
3. Bruce and David  Based on THE LOST BEACH BOY
Curious about this as I've never read the book and how they seem to get along fine now.

At the Ventura show recently, Bruce introduced him as "David Marks...almost an original beach boy!"...I think he was trying to be complimentary, but the irony of his comment seemed to elude him. Some drunk kid behind me shouted "he IS an original!"


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Jim V. on August 12, 2014, 03:39:08 PM
3. Bruce and David  Based on THE LOST BEACH BOY
Curious about this as I've never read the book and how they seem to get along fine now.

Well, from what I remember reading in the Stebbins book on Dave, it seems that Bruce has come across to Dave as a bit of a snarky, weasely, fake type (big surprise huh?). For instance, when the idea to bring Dave back into the band in the early '70s came about, it seemed that Bruce would say things to him like "it's such an honor to be in your band" and whatnot, really trying to be overly nice to Dave. But then once it was decided Dave would not be joining the group, all of the sudden Bruce acted like he had no clue who he was. Later in the book Dave says Bruce ends up basically doing the same thing in the '90s, with Dave remarking something like, "at least he's consistent."

And then in the '90s when Dave joined "The Beach Boys" it seemed that once again Bruce seemed to come across to Dave as kind of a prick. I remember at least one scenario where Dave said he was supposed to be joining Mike in a certain car after a show or something, and right as he was about to, Bruce jumped in and kinda gave him a face like "sucks to be you pal" as they pulled away. I think Dave may have ended up throwing something as they drove away too.

Now to be sure, I don't have the book on me, and I'm probably misremembering some of it, but I think this gets at the gist of it. Hopefully somebody else will be able to fill in the blanks though.

And although Bruce seems like a total dick, he did facilitate one really great thing for David. Apparently he introduced the future Mrs. Marks (Carrie) to Dave.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: SMiLE Brian on August 12, 2014, 03:56:26 PM
What the hell is wrong with Bruce? David built the gravy train he has been coasting on for decades. Ungrateful prick


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: halblaineisgood on August 12, 2014, 04:13:58 PM
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Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Magic Transistor Radio on August 12, 2014, 06:33:03 PM
On seeing this topic in my list of  "unread posts since last visit" I automatically assumed it was about longtime members of this board! A sign of the times perhaps? ;D

Oldsurferdude and Sheriff John Stone.  ;D

Ok, I made that up.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: bachelorofbullets on August 12, 2014, 07:25:56 PM
1.  Jack Reiley vs Bruce.
2.  Mike vs. VDP
3.  Mike vs Al
4.  David vs. Murray

I use these as examples because they all resulted in "ejections".

And just to address the subject, Mike has said that he and Dennis got along fine when Dennis was not shite-faced.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: guitarfool2002 on August 12, 2014, 07:53:30 PM
Dennis passed away so Mike can't really be too pissed at him.

Think legacy and image.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Nicko1234 on August 13, 2014, 02:28:52 AM

Well, from what I remember reading in the Stebbins book on Dave, it seems that Bruce has come across to Dave as a bit of a snarky, weasely, fake type (big surprise huh?). For instance, when the idea to bring Dave back into the band in the early '70s came about, it seemed that Bruce would say things to him like "it's such an honor to be in your band" and whatnot, really trying to be overly nice to Dave. But then once it was decided Dave would not be joining the group, all of the sudden Bruce acted like he had no clue who he was. Later in the book Dave says Bruce ends up basically doing the same thing in the '90s, with Dave remarking something like, "at least he's consistent."

And then in the '90s when Dave joined "The Beach Boys" it seemed that once again Bruce seemed to come across to Dave as kind of a prick. I remember at least one scenario where Dave said he was supposed to be joining Mike in a certain car after a show or something, and right as he was about to, Bruce jumped in and kinda gave him a face like "sucks to be you pal" as they pulled away. I think Dave may have ended up throwing something as they drove away too.

Now to be sure, I don't have the book on me, and I'm probably misremembering some of it, but I think this gets at the gist of it. Hopefully somebody else will be able to fill in the blanks though.

And although Bruce seems like a total dick, he did facilitate one really great thing for David. Apparently he introduced the future Mrs. Marks (Carrie) to Dave.

You got it 95% right. David actually kicked the car door as it drove off...

The book doesn`t really make Bruce appear like a total dick. Just that he and David were completely different people. And David`s drinking was obviously a problem at the time so I would guess he wasn`t the easiest person to deal with at the time either...


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Andrew G. Doe on August 13, 2014, 03:09:38 AM
1.  Jack Reiley vs Bruce.
2.  Mike vs. VDP
3.  Mike vs Al
4.  David vs. Murray

I use these as examples because they all resulted in "ejections".

And just to address the subject, Mike has said that he and Dennis got along fine when Dennis was not shite-faced.

Once again, the intrusive 'a'...


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: JK on August 13, 2014, 03:27:18 AM
1.  Jack Reiley vs Bruce.
2.  Mike vs. VDP
3.  Mike vs Al
4.  David vs. Murray

I use these as examples because they all resulted in "ejections".

And just to address the subject, Mike has said that he and Dennis got along fine when Dennis was not shite-faced.

Once again, the intrusive 'a'...
Yes indeed! Although the real fun starts when the discussion turns to Jack Rieley. Is it Rielly, Reilly, Riley, Rieley or Reiley?  :lol


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: donald on August 13, 2014, 08:24:27 AM
Realley?


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Mr. Cohen on August 13, 2014, 08:33:12 AM
Murry vs. "A".

Murry: "What's the matter 'A', you made too much money? You got the guts, punk? I have 10,000 words for you, and none of 'em include the letter 'A'!"


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: RangeRoverA1 on August 13, 2014, 09:44:23 PM
What the hell is wrong with Bruce?
Just about everything? Songs, voice, style, ideas, you name it.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: NHC on August 14, 2014, 08:17:40 AM
What the hell is wrong with Bruce?
Just about everything? Songs, voice, style, ideas, you name it.

Geez, lighten up a bit.


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: Moon Dawg on August 14, 2014, 09:10:28 AM
What the hell is wrong with Bruce?
Just about everything? Songs, voice, style, ideas, you name it.

  At least he has nice legs. :lol


Title: Re: Which two longtime members have had the worst relationship?
Post by: RangeRoverA1 on August 14, 2014, 08:19:26 PM
What the hell is wrong with Bruce?
Just about everything? Songs, voice, style, ideas, you name it.

Geez, lighten up a bit.
I believe I was half-joking. His early tunes & Deirdre are unabashed coolness.